karlitay asked: (cont'd.) If this is a control issue, channel it to something else. For every thought of doing it, pray a Hail Mary. I ask Mama Mary in desperate times to remind me of her grace. She is a perfect example of a beautiful i-dont-care-what-this-world-says Woman. She was strong here on earth to take all the bad things that people sad about her. You are strong enough too. Sometimes I just cry with her. She can intercede for you to God, might be more relatable because she's a woman.